Diary Entry 10 💋
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Omg I totally empathise with you, this is such a tricky situation!! I 100% get where you are coming from, of course you want what's best for your friend and that honestly shows how much you care and what a great friend you are!! It's a difficult place to be, if you bring it up, there's always gonna be the risk that she might get defensive or upset, especially if she really likes this person.
If you and your friend usually have open and honest communication, it might be good to gently share how you feel, coming from a place of care not judgement. It might help to be specific and calm, try focus on what you've noticed or how you feel, so it doesn't feel like an attack on her or her partner. Try to keep it clear that you are only saying this out of love and care for her. But remember, once you've shared your concerns, it's up to your friend to decide what to do with that information. If she's happy and safe, you might have to just accept her choice or try and have the conversation again later down the line if you still keep noticing things you don't like. Keep supporting her and your friendship, people often see things for themselves in their own time.
wishing you all the best xx
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